
Do you believe there is, somewhere out there, a true soul mate for each and every person? Does everything happen for a reason?
I have always believed the people in your life fall into two categories: phases and parts. Both categories are equally important and self-explanitory. But sometime hard to distinguish. It seems too often those who are just phases in our life are those same people we want to be a part of our life and vice versa.
Recently, I have decided nothing is actually a part of your life. Nothing is forever. If something is a part of your life, that something/someone would be with you forever. Nah, doesn't seem to happen that way. The people we love can't be with us forever.
Back to the topic at hand...Should we search for our sole mate, should he/she exsist, or if it is destiny, will we meet that person without the search? Is a sole mate supposed to be a mate in the traditional sense, i.e. spouse, boyfriend, etc. Or can this person just be a best friend (gender unspecific?)